What it is costing you
It quietly costs you energy and the good mood of those around you.
Your plan
- 1 · Practice (free)A habit-reversal and environment-design programme in your dashboard. Start here whatever else you choose.
- 2 · AidSteady — brake (evening) · Most people notice a difference in 6–8 weeks
- 3 · When to see a doctorTalk to a doctor if complaining comes with low mood, constant tiredness, poor sleep or loss of interest for two weeks or more.
The aid
Others in Resilience
“I either crumble or snap when someone criticises me.”Steady Openness to Feedback · Resilience
Steady“I get really unsettled whenever plans or routines change.”Steady Adaptability · Resilience
Steady“I feel like nothing I do really makes a difference.”Amplify Agency · Resilience
Amplify“I escape into screens or sleep instead of facing problems.”Amplify Facing Things · Resilience
Practice · free“I tell everyone I'm fine, even when I'm not.”Amplify Openness to Help · Resilience
Amplify“I find it hard to admit when something is my fault.”Amplify Ownership · Resilience
AmplifyWhen to see a doctor. Talk to a doctor if complaining comes with low mood, constant tiredness, poor sleep or loss of interest for two weeks or more.
Elevate names strengths, never labels people. Nothing on this page is a diagnosis; the trait is described in your words so the search matches how people actually speak.
